Ponderings

Hi Friends, I have not written in quite a while. As I start I am not even sure what my topic is or where I am going with this. But for several months now I have felt empty and lost. I miss my Mom, my sister who passed, my Dad who passed, the man who…

Hey hey, I am trying to pull my  thoughts together.  To say I am happy is so vague.  But I am down to my core.    I have started this journey of self discovery and I like where I am going.    I have become more confident,  more creative and a lot more social.  I…

We are more than our worst year.  For me that would be my 15th year.  I have had hard times in life like most of us but I have the most regret and the shame for the choices made by my 15 year self.   But as I venture into finding myself in this second…

Hey Hey, So this blog is going to be a little deeper.  I will share some of my current struggles with trying to get out of my head and maybe with sharing it I will get out of my head.  So…  here goes nothing. I want to be a positive person and not write about…

Let’s talk about food baby!! Let me start by saying this is for me, trust me I am not telling anyone how to eat now or ever. For this girl,  I am done dieting!!!  I have decided if anything goes into my mouth it must be worth it.  I want to only eat wonderful delicious…

Well Hello there!! I hope your life is finding you well.  I have been having a lot of deep thoughts about life as I approach my 50th birthday next month.   For starters, I feel like I have spent the first half of my life (half if I live to 100, yikes) reacting to things…

Hi All, It’s that time of year again when we put ridiculous expectations on ourselves.  The message is you’re not good enough as is.  Well I say  “FUCK THAT”!  When are we ok, just as we are, when is good enough good enough….  Well your good enough when you start to love yourself exactly as…